If your method of coping with stress is drinking too much, or drinking too often, or drinking alone or too early in the day, you are most likely doing a number on your emotional health AND your physical health. This strategy may feel like stress reduction, but it’s temporary at best, and will cause damage in the long run.
I can usually tell when a new client drinks too much. They have that soft "doughy" appearance. If you are really serious about losing weight and getting lean, you just have to rethink your drinking habits. In a nutshell, alcohol causes your body to pump out more estrogen and less testosterone. Over time, it’s that hormonal imbalance that makes you fat. Excessive consumption of alcohol strains your liver, which responds by slowing down your fat burning. Alcohol also dehydrates your body and that causes a significant bloating effect to the face.
And don't forget the calorie count. We know a 5 oz. glass of wine has 120 calories ( and an average restaurant pour is 6-8 oz.) so even a little can throw off your attempts to diet. Plus wine is higher in fast- digesting carbs than clear liquors like vodka, so it tends to pack on weight more easily.
The worst of the worst are the specialty drinks like margaritas or pina coladas as well as other drinks with a juice base. Some of these drinks have as many calories in them as a slice of cheesecake (400!) If you go out drinking with friends on a Friday night you could easily consume 2000 calories just in drinks. And if you're like most people (including me!) drinking leads to major food cravings and an inability to say no.
Let’s look at some alternatives to dealing with those times when you're with friends or home after work and are just ready to kick back and have that beer, glass of wine or a mixed drink.
- Prepare a nice Tonic water with lemon in a wine glass . If you prefer "mixed drinks," try it in a high ball glass--your friends will assume it’s a Gin & Tonic!
- Put Perrier in a wine glass with floating fruit.
- Drink carbonated water or diet soda instead.
- Prepare an individual flavored coffee or herbal tea
- Experiment with a near beer (such as O'Doul’s)
- Take a bubble bath with lighted candles.
- Take a walk with a friend, your significant other or your dog.
- Take up a craft that requires busy hands like knitting or cross-stitch.
- Sit somewhere else in the evening to watch TV other than the “snacking chair” or in plain site of the refrigerator.
- (My favorite these days) Do a sunset paddle board run on the lake or at the beach.
Research has shown that changing up your habit for 17 days will change the very habit that seems to be getting the best of you. Find what works for you and commit to it. Your body will thank you!