The world is constantly changing and continues to move forward. Right now, we are experiencing many changes, some of which are more impactful than others. Look at these three ideas and apply them to improve the wellbeing and health of your lives.
We are glad when challenges leave us, but we know when present, it will strengthen us.
Think about a time in your life when you were struggling, or had an obstacle that was difficult to overcome. Take the time to reflect and look at the positive impacts it made in your life and how it shaped you as a person. That change in your life has taught you something new! Don’t allow the challenges in your life to detour you. There are some things that we can’t control, but we can control how we let those things affect us and prevent them from deteriorating our mental health.
Growth is ‘heavy’ and bewildering, but also rewarding and fulfilling
What do you know about the life of a caterpillar? Caterpillars undergo a process called metamorphosis that turns them into a butterfly. When the caterpillar becomes a butterfly, it is no longer limited to walking on the earth and can now reach greater heights. Like the metamorphosis of a caterpillar, growth can be very strange, but once you do, you too can reach greater heights. As people, we should allow ourselves to grow and accept the good things that result from the changes in our lives.
Do we need to try and change others?
The answer to this question is plain and simple, absolutely not! There is a greater risk of stress in people who feel the need to have control and power over other people, which is unhealthy control. Instead, we should support and kindle ongoing friendships with people in their lives who are undergoing change, which will help us to become less stressed and healthier and happier. We need to take responsibility and focus on the changes in ourselves which will lead to higher levels of self development and wellness.
Remember:
- Take responsibility for ourselves.
- Focus on changing our own self image.
- Nurture your self-love.
We are the only ones that can change ourselves. Are you ready?
Article by Faith Buckmire-Phillips